Its all about how many moments you steal every day !!

Life is all about how much you earn.Yes i repeat :) But its not all about how much pay you earn per year,its all about how many moments you steal every day. It's not being the best at anything, it's about enjoying the little things everyday. Whether it's with the one you love or with the friends close to you.In the end, it's about living the moment any way you can :)

Its not impossible but the important thing is just  never stop trying to make your life even more beautiful than what you are living today :)

Donno what to write :)

Believe it or not i erased many a times before penning this down,the reason being they are various thoughts wandering not sure what to pen it down.

I love writing and enjoy while i write.Hope there is a world where people live not by food but reading and writing..i love it :)

What does it mean to make a difference in society?

I always here most of the time people complain that they want to contribute something to society but don't know how to get started.so i decided it to blog it today for all of them who want to make a difference:)

Differences can be big or small, though.I am satisfied with what i do to society as i have my part in making the world a better place to live.

Your decision to make a difference to society is a noble one, for that really constitutes one of the true meanings of living.

To make a difference to society,

A. Choose your area.
B. Choose the impact level.
C. Decide how to achieve such an impact.

After all, small differences add up to big ones. Every one of us has a choice to make—whether we would like to make big differences or small ones. Not all of us need to win a Nobel Prize to make a contribution. Any positive act you have done in this life constitutes a contribution to society.

The question is where do we start and how do we do it? Once you have answers to these questions you are good to go.otherwise you can contact me :)

And i bet from my 7 years of experience till date with various NGO's,working to make a difference in life's of various people will be the best time that you will always cherish.The love you get back and the smiles you see on the faces of underprivileged,the reason being U :)

Be the reason for spreading happiness along your away...life is a Present.

-Jyotsna Bobba,
PR & Resource Representative Central Office,
Pankhudi Foundation.
www.pankhudifoundation.org

experience the Experience :)

The purpose of our lives is to be happy.I always feel that I am one lucky child of god who always got the best of things.It doesn't mean that i haven't experienced any oods in life and my journey was smooth till date.I accepted what ever came in with a smile on my face and i am happy at the end of it.It made a lot of positive influence on me.

I always believe that god has better plans for me,just staying calm and cool is the only thing that i should do !!

Its up to you to make or break your day.It is what you choose makes a difference in yours and others lives as well:)

Experience is a beautiful thing where it teaches lessons so be ready to learn from them in order to identity a mistake when you make it again.

So experience the Experience :)

Keep smiling and spread smiles along your way. :)

Lesson from the Russians !!

As i always do while i was reading a book today i saw an interesting peace for us to learn.This advice is very much as how i think but totally in a contrast way that happened in Russia.I always wanted weddings to be simple but many say that it is a great event in everyone's life so wanted to be grand.No contradictions anyways everyone will have their own opinion.

But to be honest i liked this peace because it goes in the same lines as i think.

The amount of money spent sometimes constitutes the entire life's savings of a person.At times people take such huge lones for this celebration that they end up repaying them throughout their life.

People like us are worried about the finest jewelery and saris.

Russia in contradiction ,wedding takes place normally on Saturdays and Sundays.Irrespective of season after signing the register married couple must visit the important national monuments near by.Every boy in the country has to serve in the military for couple of years at least.Regardless of his position he must wear service uniform for the wedding :)

This is mark of gratitude.The newly married couple has to remember they are living in a peaceful,independent Russia because of their ancestor's sacrifices.

But We are busy shopping for saris,buying jewelery and preparing elaborate menus :)
I wished we could learn a lesson from the Russians.

I don't really suggest to do like what Russians do but at least instead of pouring money for such kind of events these can be spent for lighting someones lives which remains even more memorable in your life.Just my thought !! Not asking everyone to do :)


Keep Thinking,
Jo

It is always the hater who gets hurt more :)

I never got a thought to write about this topic before but today here it is i have learnt something from it.This to to people who doesn't knew about this before :)

Every negative emotion secretes acid in your body,and acid destroys the vessel,which contains it.

Negative emotions like anger,frustration and disappointment are visiting emotions.The consolation being,they rise in you when an event happens and then they die down once you are distracted into the other events.

Hatred is a progressive negative emotion.It gains depth with the passage of time.The more you process your hurt the more you deepen your hatred.

Hatred takes you away from the real U.You cease to feel,think and act as you.The 'hated' now becomes the hero of your mind and heart,literally remote controlling how you feel,think and act. :)

Forgiveness is not liberating the other from u,but liberating yourself from other.

Nothing and nobody deserves a disturbing presence within you.

Let go the disturbance and let in peace" .

Everyman will face the consequences of his own doing.You don't make yourself wrong to prove that the other is wrong.

Give up your need to prove that the other is wrong.It still changes nothing about your life.

Something happened to teach you something :)

Learn the lessons and just move on...

Keep Smiling
Jo

What we do in our leisure hours determines what we are :)

"What we do during our working hours determines what we have;
What we do in our leisure hours determines what we are ."

Life is not all about what you have,it is all about how you make it for your dreams to come True.

Everyone has a feel good factor,think before you do it.Its your choice and not a chance.So choose how you want to be.Be in the circle of positive influences that makes your life and day simpler,easier and worthwhile :)

Your thoughts makes you or breaks you at the end of the day.
Everyday is fresh waiting for you,you can learn something out of it.

Instead thinking i am supposed to be,be what you want to be irrespective of what others feel about it!!But be careful in what ever you do such that it will not harm others.
After all this is a world of people with different opinions,you have the right to go ahead with yours :)

I believe when i do good,I feelgood!!
When i do bad,i feel bad!!

This is what i am,i live my life :)

Keep Smiling,
Jo

Adopt a child and give them a new Life :)

Once upon a time there was an idea that struck my mind.I thought how it will be if i adopt a child?Isn't it nice and a good feeling when you are giving a life to a child's dream.

Initially I don't know how to proceed,i don't know much about the acts, no idea how to and where to start about it.No idea of my initial step.But now as when i started reading about Hindu Adoptions And Maintenance Act, 1956 aka HAMA,i felt that the procedure was and is a hurdle for the people to adopt one.

So many restrictions and so many rules to follow.So many documents to submit.Taking the child to court every year till five years.Yes at the end of it security of the child is important but with the current act i feel people coming forward will be very few crossing all these.

These are quite a few to know more about it you can go through the act.

But at the end of the day i request people to think about Adopting a child and giving them a new life they dream off.That's the best thing you can do in your life time :)

-Jo