Find Freedom From Happiness!!

Unhappiness persists because we resist!!

Dwelling on any disturbance within you-with the idae that the more time u spend thinking about it,the less troublesome it will becom-- is like trying to knock ants off ur picnic table by throwing sugar at them.

Find Freedom From Happiness!!

when we think about any painful event be it three minutes or thirty years old,we look at nothing more than a shadow of what once was --something that is no more!

The catch here is that these same thoughts--these shadows of experiences gone by--seem to have a life of their own ,and in a way thet do,for each carriers with it a full complementary set of emotional baggage--the still smoldering stuff of what e went through the first time the event transpired.to see the truth of this inner dynamic is the first step we must take to learn to walk away from the useless suffering that wrecks our lives,a step that brings us to the essential point of study.

whatever the cause,on any given day when lifes wheel of fortune takes a bad turn or one's memories go back around to relive some double zero day,the pain we feel coursing through us is real in itself,but the actual cause of suffering is a" lie".


Can this be?let's see.one simple question answers this misteryif we will dare answer it as honestly as we know how : if it werent for something with in us wanting to revisit these painful old images--to recall their familiar old pangs --then would we go where this torment is?surely the answer is no!which brings us the next important question :what is it in our present nature that wants ti revisit these shadowy scenes and releive the suffering stored away in them??

we can find answer to this question when we look at how we habitually react to any form of pssychological pain that pops into our awareness.we always try to make the pain go away by looking for the reason it appeared in the first place.But as we are about to discover ,our usual behaviour here is all a part of our unconcious suffering.

Heres why:we r convinced that if we wish to escape our painful state we must some how find a way to resolve it.this seems to leave us no choice other than to revisit again and again the same unhappy images taht give rise to our painin the first place!talk about a vicious circle!this is not unlike getting frightened by a scary scene ina horror movie and then closing our eyes in the hope of escaping the fear we feel for what we have just seen.The more we resist this or any negative image ,the more definitevely it presses itself into our minds eye.

But we now know that this pain --along with those unconcious parts of ourselves that have always jumped to answer it--is little more than an echo of a time long gone.As such, we also know how to answer these recurring aches with the only response powerful enough to dissolve them completely.we meet them with our understanding that thy no longer have the power to torment us as thay have always done.

we r now ready for the next step to know how to relese all that used to make us scared or sad.our studied have spiritually prepared us for this next important step.when we feel some jknod of dark ness coming over us,we must muster the courage to conciously doubt the reality of this condition,even though our feelings r powerfully trying to convince us that what we feel is true.And we can do this now.

we have seen for ourself that we no longer have to believe in "ghosts", let alone the clanking of the chains!Thanks to higher understanding that we know better .to help summarize this ,here is a short poem entitled "ten words with power to help u walk away from useless suffering"

THE "FEEL " IS REAL
BUT THE "WHY" IS A LIE !

Dare to apply its wisdom to any moment when some negative state tries to brew up a storm in u, and watch how u make even the most stubbon feelings disappear!

go ahead with ur decision friends............

Friends I want all of u to read the entire post and just reading is not important,think of it and make a good decision which brings u success in life…….


Don’t break into a sprint. And, dont crawl either. Consider the pros and cons and lend an ear to expert opinions. But don't let the decision making process go on and on and on..........

Here is a real life incident that tells about the dangers of hasty decisions under the influence of fright or anger. A woman came home to find her husband in the kitchen, shaking frantically with what looked like a wire running from his waist towards the electric kettle.

Intending to jolt him a way from the deadly current, she whacked him with a handy plank of wood, breaking his arm. Until that moment he had been happily listening to his Walkman.

FOUR STEPS:

Decision means choosing between various options. Normally students are guided by their parents and influenced by their friends regarding their career and future. Here r four basic steps to make a wise decision.

1.think of a many alternatives as possible. Never stick on to the first one that occurred to ur mind and try to strengthen it. When u ask a person for an advice or to take a decision on ur behalf, think: does he know as much about the problem as I do?

2.never relay on ‘one’ expert opinion. They may be biased or not scientifically correct. Search for more information with other professionals, books, online services and newspapers. Visualise the outcome of each alternative.

3.Consider whether it is for u or someone else. If ur decision is to affect others take into consideration their values also.

4.consider ur capabilities. Never be too optimistic or pessimistic. Access the pros and cons and what u r loosing or gaining by ur decision.

Many a times u r very happy about a decision but not comfortable with its possible outcome. It is like aiming for IIT without basic foundation. On the other hand sometimes u may dislike a decision but excited about the outcome. This includes selling of ancestral property. If u feel u can live with both the decision as well as the possible outcome, this is the path u should follow.

Being unable to take a decision is called “decidiphobia.” It is more harmful than a hasty decision. Review constantly, whether u r going in right direction and getting expected results. If not, change the goal. Many students and their parents undergo complexity in this juncture, unable to change their fixed targets. Ask ur frnd to count down and tell u how many paragraphs this article has. After his reply, ask him whts the title of article. He cannot tell u. Same way when u call 4 an advice, the expert would tell u the solutions from his knowledge and experience. Take suggestions but final decision is urs.

On the other hand leave expectations when listening to a good advice and be open. Sometimes the main cause of a problem rests somewhere else. For a student who feels that physics is a tough, the reason may be his poor standard in elementary mathematics.

Friends at last I want to conclude by saying

LIFE IS A RARE CHANCE
WITH PLENTY OF PLANS
IF POSITIVE U WIN
IF NEGATIVE U LOOSE.

hai...............have a look

Friends plz mail me ur comments or anything u want to share with me.
My mail address……….Jyotsna_b2002@yahoo.co.in


Have a look of this friends and hope u will agree with me………..

LIFE ENDS WHEN U STOP BREATHING
LOVE ENDS WHEN U STOP CARING
FRIENDSHIP ENDS WHEN U STOP SAILING
HOPE ENDS WHEN U STOP BELIEVING…………


The higher u dream the higher u should aspire,
The higher u aspire,the higher u should go.
The higher u go,the higher u achieve,
The higher u achieve,the higher u should dream.


Friends I am really very happy knowing that my blog is being visited by so many of u and I thank all of u so much for that.

I am really exited to know that so many of u r really showing intrest to read my articles…..and my conversation with a one of my friend sujeet revealed this….

Lets have a look of our conversation in which I am quite impressed with some of the points spoken by him after reading my article…Friends read our conversation I promise it will not bore u and u will find some intresting points coming out of that…………………

He said……………..well i can tell u one thing from this,
hope the people who read this ..just don read it but understand n implement it.

Then I asked him do u agree with me about my article friends and friendship…..
absolutely ….he said and continued……

Friends can do anything, anytime ,anywhere.And we shoud do too.Thats the reason i told u, that this life is very small for fightin n quarrelin.……..

people shud realize, josh (its me)!

understand this about frndship. u make a friend when u like him/her.……or urr frequencies match, u r tryin to find urselves in him/her,a mirror. so u r tryin to look at a mirror image of urs. rite!
well ...i think we shud b able to accept hir/her qualities in to u
we shud allow things into us


AND HE SAID……………….

let us consider our brain as a cube, so it has 6 sides.we r tryin to attach them by bringin it near.
so wat happens is .……………….only one side will b in full contact, the rest five will not.

thats the reason i tell that we shud accept him /her the way he/she is.
and that is possible in friendship. A new dimension to friendship. Be ready to let things in to u.And then u get to taste the spice of life. how u tackle them.

people get dejected for small things, they shud try n realise the valuye of life.
shudnt worry bout small failures.

this bout frndship!!!!!!

……………………………….and plz think of this friends!!!!!!!!!!!

tortise/hare story...................

Friends today I will narrate u a story that will bring some points into light……..so follow them and hope u will implement them which gives u success………….

lessons........... from a twist in the tortoise / hare story many folds and see what is the final moral.

Once upon a time a tortoise and a hare had an argument about who was faster. They decided to settle the argument with a race.

They agreed on a route and started off the race. The hare shot ahead and ran briskly for some time.

Then seeing that he was far ahead of the tortoise, he thought he'd sit under a tree for some time and relax before continuing the race. He sat under the tree and soon fell asleep. The tortoise plodding on overtook him and soon finished the race, emerging as the undisputed champ.

-The hare woke up and realised that he'd lost the race. The moral of the story is that slow and steady wins the race. This is the version of the story that we've all grown up with. But then recently, someone told me a more interesting version of this story.

It continues... The hare was disappointed at losing and did some soul-searching. He realised that he'd lost the race only because he had been overconfident, careless and lax. If he had not taken things for granted, there's no way the tortoise could have beaten him. So he challenged the tortoise to another race. The tortoise agreed.

This time, the hare went all out and ran without stopping from start to finish. He won by several miles. The moral of the story? Fast and consistent will always beat the slow and steady.

If you have two people in your organisation, one slow, methodical and reliable, and the other fast and still reliable at what he does, the fast and reliable chap will consistently climb the organisational ladder faster than the slow, methodical chap. It's good to be slow and steady; but it's better to be fast and reliable.

But the story doesn't end here...

The tortoise did some thinking this time, and realised that there's no way he can beat the hare in a race the way it was currently formatted. He thought for a while, and then challenged the hare to another race, but on a slightly different route.

The hare agreed. They started off. In keeping with his self-made commitment to be consistently fast, the hare took off and ran at top speed until he came to a broad river. The finishing line was a couple of kilometres on the other side of the river.

The hare sat there wondering what to do. In the meantime the tortoise trundled along, got into the river, swam to the opposite bank, continued walking and finished the race. The moral of the story?

First identify your core competency and then change the playing field to suit your core competency. In an organisation, if you are a good speaker, make sure you create opprtunities to give presentations that enable the senior management to notice you.

If your strength is analysis, make sure you do some sort of research, make a report and send it upstairs. Working to your strengths will not only get you noticed, but will also create opportunities for growth and advancement.

The story still hasn't ended....

The hare and the tortoise, by this time, had become pretty good friends and they did some thinking together. Both realised that the last race could have been run much better. So they decided to do the last race again, but to run as a team this time.

They started off, and this time the hare carried the tortoise till the riverbank. There, the tortoise took over and swam across with the hare on his back. On the opposite bank, the hare again carried the tortoise and they reached the finishing line together.

They both felt a greater sense of satisfaction than they'd felt earlier. The moral of the story? It's good to be individually brilliant and to have strong core competencies; but unless you're able to work in a team and harness each other's core competencies, you'll always perform below par because there will always be situations at which you'll do poorly and someone else does well.

Teamwork is mainly about situational leadership, letting the person with the relevant core competency for a situation takes leadership.

There are more lessons to be learnt from this story...

Note that neither the hare nor the tortoise gave up after failures. The hare decided to work harder and put in more effort after his failure. The tortoise changed his strategy because he was already working as hard as he could.

In life, when faced with failure, sometimes it is appropriate to work harder and put in more effort. Sometimes it is appropriate to change strategy and try something different.
And sometimes it is appropriate to do both.

The hare and the tortoise also learnt another vital lesson. When we stop competing against a rival and instead start competing against the situation, we perform far better.

When Roberto Goizueta took over as CEO of Coca-Cola in the 1980s, he was faced with intense competition from Pepsi that was eating into Coke's growth. His executives were Pepsi-focussed and intent on increasing market share 0.1 per cent a time. Goizueta decided to stop competing against Pepsi and instead compete against the situation of 0.1 per cent growth. He asked his executives what was the average fluid intake of an American per day? The answer was 14 ounces.

What was Coke's share of that? Two ounces. Goizueta said Coke needed a larger share of that market. The competition wasn't Pepsi. It was the water, tea, coffee, milk and fruit juices that went into the remaining 12 ounces.

The public should reach for a Coke whenever they felt like drinking something. To this end, Coke put up vending machines at every street corner. Sales took a quantum jump and Pepsi has never quite caught up since. To sum up, the story of the hare and tortoise teaches us many things.

Chief among them are

- fast and consistent will always beat slow and steady;

- work to your competencies;

- pooling resources and working as a team will always beat individual performers

- never give up when faced with failure;

and finally,

- compete against the situation - not against a rival

12 ways to be HAPPY

SO FOLLOW THEM TO LEAD A COLORFUL LIFE

1. Make up your mind to be happy. Learn to find pleasure in simple things.

2. Make the best of your circumstances.No one has everything, and everyone has something of sorrow intermingled with gladness of life. The trick is to make the laughter outweigh the tears.

3. Don't take yourself too seriously. Dont think that somehow you should be protected from misfortune that befalls other people.

4. You can't please everybody. Don't let criticism worry you.

5. Don't let your neighbor set your standards. Be yourself.

6. Do the things you enjoy doing but stay out of debt.

7. Never borrow trouble. Imaginary things are harder to bear than real ones.

8. Since hate poisons the soul, do not cherish jealousy, Avoid people who make you unhappy.

9. Have many interests. If you can't travel, read about new places.

10. Don't hold postmortems. Don't spend your time brooding over sorrows or mistakes. Don't be one who never gets over things.

11. Do what you can for those less fortunate than yourself.

12. Keep busy at something. A busy person never has time to be unhappy.

About FRIENDS and FRIENDSHIP...............

FRIENDS IN THIS POST I WANT TO SHARE ABOUT FRIENDS AND FRIENDSHIP.......

Too often we don't realize
What we have until it is gone.
Too often we wait too late to say
"I'm sorry - I was wrong."
Sometimes it seems we hurt the ones
We hold dearest to our hearts;
And we allow foolish things
To tear our lives apart.
Far too many times we let
Unimportant things into our minds;
And then it's usually too late
To see what made us blind.
So be sure that you let people know
How much they mean to you.Take the time to say the words
Before your time is through.
Be sure that you appreciate
Everything you've got;
And be thankful for the little things
in life that mean a lot.


Friendship...........
Have you ever stopped to think of the rarest thing on Earth today? Does the thought of friendship, the kind acts and things that others do, make you consider it in
any way? Do your smiles turn into laughter, and your heart feel oh, so good? Do you long to spend one more minute, with that friend, who makes it all happen? Well, of course you should.

Do you have a special someone, who will lend a listening ear and a caring heart? Do you know
without a doubt that your secrets will be kept, and your words, they will never impart?

For we have our problems and woes, in this life of sorrow and of gall. But to have no one to help
you in your time of need, is the most painful of all. We are so thankful for our great God,who
gave us friends.

And He gave us the ability to become the rarest of all, yes, I mean you and me... For each of us
can be that friend, for the other who is in need.

My Friend............
When true friendship
binds two individuals together,
that bond can never be broken.
For in times of confusion,
I will be there to listen to you.
In times of sadness,
I will be there to console you.
In times of anger,
I will be there to talk with you
even when miles separate us.
My friend,when you are confused,
when you are sad,
when you are angry,
search your heart,
and I will be there.
I am and always will beyour friend.

I Need You Now..............

My friend, I need you now.
Please take me by the hand.
Stand by me in my hour of need,
Take time to understand.
Take my hand, dear friend,
And lead me from this place.
Chase away my doubts and fears,
Wipe the tears from my face.
Friend, I cannot stand alone.
I need your hand to hold,
The warmth of your gentle touch
In my world that's grown so cold.
Please be a friend to me
And hold me day by day.
Because with your loving hand in mine,
I know we'll find the way.

The Joyful Things.........

At times I'm so discouraged
with the problems of the day,
I fail to see the joyful things
that are along the way.
When troubles overwhelm me
it's then my nerves may fray.
That's when I need to take
the timeTo simply sit and pray.
Reflecting on God's many gifts,
it makes me so awareof all the joy in little things
around me everywhere!
I must try to remember
though problems come my way,
not to miss the joyful things
and the beauty of the day.

WHEN WE SHARE........

When we share laughter,
There's twice the fun;
When we share success,
We surpass what we've done.
When we share problems,
There's half the pain;
When we share tears,
A rainbow follows rain.
When we share dreams,
They become more real;
When we share secrets,
It's our hearts we reveal.
If we share a smile,
Then our love shows;
If we share a hug,
Then our love grows.
If we share with someone
On whom we depend,
That person becomesFamily or friend.
And what draws us closer
And makes us all care,
Is not what we have,
But the things that we share.
You Are My Friends And I Hope
You Know That's True.
No Matter What Happens
I Will Stand Right By You.
In Times Of Grief
I Will Give You Belief.
I'll Be There For You
Whenever You Are In Need.
To Lend You A HandTo Do A Good Deed.

So Just Call On Me WhenYou Need Me, My Friends!
I Will Always Be There For YouRight To The End!

FRIENDS U MEAN A LOT TO ME!

How to Make Good Decisions - Especially the Really Important Ones

FRIENDS I AM VERY DELIGHTED TODAY TO SHARE SOME OF MY EXPERIENCES FROM AN ARTICLE I READ RECENTLY BY CRAIG LOCK.

FIRSTLY LET ME TELL SOME WORDS ABOUT THE AUTHOR:

Craig Lock has written extensively on the subject of self help. Craig is awriter, who believes in encouraging and helping others to find their talents and gifts, to strive for and accomplish their dreams in life, whatever they may be. He truly believes people can overcome obstacles,
rise to any occasion, and accomplish their "impossible" dream with enough faith and commitment.

AND SUMMARY OF HIS ARTICLE IS AS FOLLOWS FRNDS READ THIS AND AFTER READING KEEP THM IN MIND.

Life is full of decisions; we make hundreds of them every day. Most are automatic and minor ones. However, occasionally we are compelled to make vitally important decisions about major life-goals. These decisions are often practical or ethical ones. For example, we occasionally have to take major decisions like choosing a marriage partner (assuming they'll take you, that is), choosing to leave a partner in marriage, or decisions about what to do with your life.

* Hints In Decision Making *

A positive attitude to life helps make major decision making far easier and less stressful. Hëre are some general hints on decision making (although it's one of my weakest areas); but I'm trying hard to improve...

1. Get rid of your mental blocks.

2. Give up the notion that there is only one 'right solution' to the problem/dilemma you are confronting.

3. Don't fear making a mistake.

4. View your problems as a normal part of life (is that possible?). Every problem requiring a
decision is an "opportunïty in disguise."

5. See yourself not as an indecisive person; but rather someone who sometimes behaves
indecisively...that's a rather kind way of putting it.

6. Develop your intuition and logic, but listen to what your heart says (gut feeling).

7. Stop and think before you act. Stop yourself doing the first thing you think of. That's me for sure

8. Be specific.

9. Know what your goals and your values are, the principles of your existence, before taking a major life decision. Ask yourself, if the ideal outcome is in alignment with your values.

10. Write down all the positive and negative factors for and against taking a particular course of action. American diplomat Benjamin Franklin did it in two columns when confronted with major decisions.

11. Think how the decision will benefit YOU first. Do what you and not what other people really want.

12. Try to think calmly and rationally (very difficult for me).

13 ("lucky"). Do your homework and get all the facts before you make the decision.

14. Get opinions and feedback from others you trust; but don't let them make the decision for you.

15. Establish priorities and "soul search" (for a "soulmate"). Ask yourself what the critical factors are. What is the sïngle most important consideration?

16. Trust your impulses, your "gut-feelings." Use your intuition through meditation - this is "God, the Universe" "speaking" back to us through all the "accumulated wisdom" of the world.

17. Don't take your decision too seriously; nothing is that important, no matter how much it appears like that to you. Ask yourself how much it will really matter in one, five or ten years time. Remember, no decision is irreversible, if you find out some way down the track that you've taken the wrong course. But some decisions are pretty important.

18. Look for OPPORTUNITÏES in any decision. Each "mistake" is an opportunïty to learn. I've launched into a writing "career" from a "mistake" coming to the other side of the world. A problem became a great opportunïty to do something I'd nevër ever thought of doing (is it the
"winds of fate," "the unseen hand of God," perhaps guiding me in a conscious decision?). If you are making mistakes, you are not learning and growing. So say to yourself, "it doesn't really matter," or "so what"...then "get into this world."

19. Accept total responsibility for your decisions. Responsibility is not BLAME - so don't blame others for putting yourself in this predicament.This attitude helps to relieve your anger or resentment and gives one peace of mind.

20. Change course if your strategy is not working - the quality of your life is at stake. My mistake is that I persist on a chosen course for far too long at times, like writing! Learn when to correct your direction. "If you don't change direction, you'll end up where you're heading."
Bear in mind that pilots are off course on their flight-path 90% of the time... but they still arrive at their destination. When driving you are also continually making little corrections; so there's hope for me yet.

21. Be prepared to take a few risks in life. Look out for
opportunïties.Every successful business or venture started out with an idea which was a
risk. Nothing is infallible. The knowledge that you can handle anything that comes your way is your key to allowing yourself to take risks.security is a state of mind. It's not having things, it's HANDLING things.and finally,

22. Look ahead to the future in a spirit of hope and optimism - the past is already gone. See the path ahead as an adventure into the unknown and a time for challenge with many new opportunïties. Every problem requiring a decision is an "opportunïty in disguise."

It's a matter of making correct small daily decisions, which are our "stepping-stones" on the road to success

I love the following quotation...

"The past is history,
the future is a mystery,
and this moment is the gift,
that is why this moment is called the present."
- Deepak Chopra

May all your decisions guide you towards a prosperous and happy tomorrow
May all your moments be full of joy and the rich promise of the future.

The Magic Of Love.....

Friends today i read a recent post of my friend chaitanya and it inspired me to choose as todays subject .I thought to give a glimpse of his article in my post. Also added my opinion in this article.

The Magic Of Love
Love is like magicAnd it always will be.
For love still remainsLife's sweet mystery!!
Love works in waysThat are wondrous and strange
And there's nothing in lifeThat love cannot change!!
Love can transformThe most commonplace
Into beauty and splendorAnd sweetness and grace.
Love is unselfish,Understanding and kind,
For it sees with its heartAnd not with its mind!!
Love is the answerThat everyone seeks...
Love is the language,That every heart speaks.
Love can't be bought,It is priceless and free,
Love, like pure magic,Is life's sweet mystery!!

Here is a glimpse of his article:

A person who makes us loves him/her is actually a person who loves us more than we love him/her.

Time will tell, If he's yours he will come back.

Nobody will sympathise a person who constantly let chances passes by without making any efforts to salvage. We normally don't realise how important our loved and closed ones are until they left us, we'll start reminiscences which results misery.

If you found someone who truly appreciates you, He/she deserves more of your love.
Love needs time to realise, there might be love at first sight but it takes time to let one gradually discover their affection towards another.

Don\'t give up if you face or think that you have competitors. It\'s always better to try, if you suceed, the reward is more than you can expect. but if you don\'t try or don\'t summon up the courage, you might lose the one you like/love forever.

Love is a means of self giving and self sacrificsing, if he/she knows your flaws and still willing to accept you, continue to like/love you as you are or even more, boy, you are lucky

Open your heart, let people love you, never Doubt their intentions, sincerity can be felt by the heart. When you love, it is not for you to be understood but for you To understand; not for you to take but for you to be taken; to listen not to dictate; to sacrifice and not to demand; not to count or measure but to love.

When you love, it is not for you to be understood but for you To understand; not for you to take but for you to be taken; to listen not to dictate; to sacrifice and not to demand; not to count or measure but to love.

Friends after reading the above i think u too agree with the above stated.
Now let me define it for U

Love is strong yet delicate.It can be broken.
To truly love is to understand this.To be in love is to respect this.
Love is like the sun coming out of the cloudsand warming your soul.


What do u think friends...am i right..........

A note from the heart for u pals

Another friendship day has goneby,ringing in so many great thoughts that r hard to put in words.

I remember the moments spent with my class v friend sharing food and problems in the lunch hour!I can never forget the day we r parted due to unavoidable reasons(fate in deed is cruel!).Four years ago,we formed a group with five people each one stands for their unique Characteristics comprising love,care,kind,compassionate,etc.All the thoughts and moments shared with them gently lap the shores of my sensibilities and give me company in those lonely moments and all those up's ans down's of life.

A stroy of two decades on this earth has its own tales of tribulations to tell(i hope u'll all agree with it!).Tough days and rough experiences in school,college and in graduation,but they were all swept off due to the love and affection of my friends and parents!U think i am getting sentimental?No way.It's reality.And i'm thankful for such happiness in my life.Ever imagined ur life without that love and care?It would be in a real limbo.Friends do come and go, making us whine and pine for them!

And parents are friends ,u cannot compare with anyone else.Life would be a cipher without them.It was their friendship that nurtured me-and helped me sail through the crests and troughs of life.

Friendship bands,greeting cards and all sorts of beautiful trinkets r indeed wonderful!!But ever cared for the unconditional love u receive from ur parents?Be it in a sacrifise or correcting our mistakes?Who else can be our best friend?This is no ode for them-no thanksgiving because i know that nothing can compare to their love and friendship.All other friends come later.I just want to say to these friends and all friends of mine that ,I love u and breath ur friendship.

Thanks for being their for me friends.

"Inspiring story.....Who Moved My Cheese"

Every once in a while a book comes along that opens a door to the future.WHO MOVED MY CHEESE? has had that effect on me.Spencer Johnson opened my eyes to the changes streaking by me which i couldn't as yet identify.

This is used by men and women to deal with change in their lives and in their work.

Glimpse of the story that will benefit all of us.........

Change happens...........
they keep moving the cheese
anticipate change
get ready for the cheese to move

monitor change.......
smell the cheeseoften so u
know when it is getting old

Adapt to change quickly
the quicker u let go of old cheese,
the sooner u can enjoy new cheese.

Change.........
move with the cheese

Enjoy change!
savor the adventure and
enjoy the taste of new cheese!

Be ready to change quickly.....
And enjoy it again
they keep moving the cheese.



"life is no straight and easy corridor along
which wr travel free and unhampered,
but a maza of passages,
through which we must seek our way,
lost and confused,now and again
checked in a blind alley.

but always,if we have faith
god will open a door for us,
not perhaps one that we ourselves
would ever have though of,
but one that will ultimately
prove good for us."
-A.J.cronin

The Secret Of Being Unstoppable

Hidden deep within you is an unstoppable power.

Unstoppable in relationships. Unstoppable in business. Unstoppable in revelation.

This power is so extraordinary that even just a brief glimpse of its infinite potential reveals the possibility of touching the stars themselves. Its stirring inspires us to create... to learn... to change as we must to realize the purpose of our own being.

The barriers that presently keep us from the success we seek -- limitation, discouragement, bad luck -- hold no real authority over this unclaimed gift. When we awaken to its higher possibilities, there is literally nothing that can stand in our way.

And while these claims may sound too good to be true, let me assure you they are understated, if anything. One could literally fill pages and pages with the extraordinary benefits of the unstoppable life -- and the words would still be pale in comparison to the real possibilities.

However, as with all things that seem too good to be true, there is a catch.

There is a reason why most people don't know -- and will never know -- the reality of this extraordinary inner-strength:

Most people are content with their life "as is." And those content with "life as usual" can never realize their full potential for this one reason: they have ceased to nourish the secret part of themselves that alone has the power to develop their true potential.

In other words, the secret of being unstoppable is only revealed to human beings who truly long to go beyond who they have been...

It is reserved for those rare few who are weary of limitation, and who instinctively know -- deep down inside their heart -- that they were meant for an ever-expanding life filled with Peace, Love, Mystery, Success, and Freedom.

Secrets of the Extraordinary Life

FRIENDS.................

Have you ever longed to explore the depths of your True Self -- to touch the Eternal? This is your chance to learn the Way.

The ability to do, to act in the Now and not fall into fear, doubt, or other self-limiting states is one and the same as the power to live in the perfectly present moment.

In Living Now you're shown the secrets of how to enter into direct relationship with the Grand Principles of kindness, compassion, freedom, peace, and love so they not only guide your thoughts, but your actions as well.


Harness the Powers of a Liberated Life:

1.Solve the mystery of yourself and start true self-healing .

2.Be stronger than whatever shakes you.

3.Free yourself from any worry or fear.

4.Enter into the Timeless Life .

5.Do your part to help transform the world .

6.Call on Higher principles to empower you in the Now .

Start Seeing Through the Need for Approval

Friends read this and i assure u will not get bored of this....and this is real fact of life........accepted or unaccepted.....................


There is a certain longing inherent in us to belong to something greater than ourselves. That longing that has a natural foundation is stolen very quickly, in fact it never has a chance to get off the ground. What happens? Remember grammar school? Remember how you began to notice that there were certain groups of people that maybe you wanted to belong to but they didn't want you to belong to them? From a very early age, we find ourselves being pushed along, looking to be accepted by our friends. That longing to be accepted -- which is very powerful -- doesn't end with grammar school.


In fact, as we grow older and mature, that longing to be accepted blossoms and expands. We all went through that process of feeling quite often that not only weren't we accepted but that when we did what we had to do to get approved by others, often we didn't get the approval we were looking for. What is the root of this endless compromise that takes place in us where we want to be accepted, and to be accepted we have to gain approval, and we sell ourselves no matter how we do it?

The root of that which is forever seeking acceptance and approval in us is that which is forever telling us that we are unacceptable as we are. There is something figurative that lives in us, that actually causes, by its very nature, that feeling in us that as we are, it just is not enough. We are unacceptable as we are. What is in us that feels as though it is unacceptable has to be the root of what drives us to always find acceptance.

Can you see that is psychologically true? It's like a thorn. On a good day, it's not so bad, because on a good day your hair is right, you've got the right clothes on, the wind is blowing in your direction, and things are OK. Maybe you're even witty. There is no problem because "even if they don't like me, I like myself." But that nature disappears, and up comes this person who is doing a song and dance: "Hi. I'm Gal. Please like me. I'm nice." I do a song and dance, but I don't think I'm doing a song and dance until maybe the person doesn't approve of me, and then I go into a bigger song and dance, and if that doesn't work, I just close the curtain on the person because "there is something wrong with them."

What is it in us that has us not just believing that as we are, we're unacceptable, but serving the whole idea of being unacceptable to the point that we have sold our soul to gain it? You've heard the passage: "and lose his soul?"What does it profit a man to gain a whole world What do I lose my soul for? To gain what? To belong to something by which my sense of self is corroborated. I'm real because these people and this world agrees. Here is what is at the root of, inside of ourselves, this unspoken silent killer called feeling that we are unacceptable as we are. It is, in short, the comparative mind.

That is the source of all suffering relative to a person feeling as though they are always unacceptable as they are. Why is that so? What is a comparative mind?
A comparative mind is that which knows itself by what it is not. For example, we tend to know who we are by what we are not. Do you ever think to yourself, "I'm not enough; I need more money"? So you go and make more money. Then something happens, as it always does because you've defined yourself by that condition. And, as a rule, because everything is always changing, as soon as what has defined you "goes away," what happens to you? Down you go! You crash. And then you have to find something new to define yourself by again.

This is what it means to live by a comparative mind -- a mind that always gives us a sense of ourselves by thinking about something else. For the rest of your life, make the effort to be awake and watchful of what we have looked into here, so that little by little all of us can start to see that whenever we strive for approval and acceptance to lend us the feeling of being a part of life, this is actually what sets us apart from it.

INSPIRING QUOTES

...."the true sign of intelligence is not KNOWLEDGE but IMAGINATION".
-Albert Einstein


Friends these are some of the sentences and quotes that i had read from some books........

....... Never stop Dreaming.

........"when u want to something,all the universe conspires to help u to achieve it."
-taken from book named The Alchamist

..........The secret of happiness is to see all the marvels of the world and never forget the drops of oil on the spoon.

.......Think new ideas ,make work intresting.

....u must never feel that u r less than other people.u r as good as anyone.

..."Winners dont do different things ,they do things differently."

...........Never ignore somebody who cares 4 u because someday u may find that u have lost a "DIAMOND" when u r busy collecting STONES.

.....FRIENDSHIP NEVER SPEAKES VOLUMES
IT NEVER DEMANDS PROOF
IT NEVER HAS A HAPPY ENDING TOO.
SIMPLY BECAUSE IT DOESNOT END AS LONG AS THE FRIENDS R TRUE.

.........."Inspire urself to follow ur own dreams by seeing the world through your own eyes and not someone else's."

.......its the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life intresting.

Quality is way of life

Friends I feel striving for Quality in our life and in every task we undertake will bring us cheer, happiness, joy and success and will always keep us one step ahead of others.
Friends Quality in our life doesnt mean quality in MATERIALISTIC things , it is but a tiny part of it.
Highlighting our strong points and working towards finding and strengthening weak points ,spending time on your own making plans on acheiving them,finding some purpose for our existence and updating quality knowledge will give us success.
what ever task we take we must undertake with full enthusiasm and dedication.
we should be honest to OURSELF ,set reasonable goals and work towards acheiving them.Sence of achievement and accomplishment will give us satisfaction and improves our self confidence.

I Strongly Feel About........

"Good better and best,never let it rest,until ur good is better and better becomes best."
Trouble and oppurtunity often look alike that a person can never be sure which one is really knocking the door. some times what look like oppurtunity turns to be nothing but trouble, and sometimes trouble proves to be oppurtunity.
Good taughts make us feel fresh and boosts up a lot of strength.A continuous process of learning enlightens us with knowledge that drives us to face the up's and down's of life.
Desire is the cause for all sorrows.we must reduce our desires ,think of our duty,cherish our principles and acheive our goal.This is the success story of all great personalities.
Will,Power and Determination are the only means of success."where there is a will there is a way", from the ancient people to the present great men-determination has been the real tool for success.